Fellow Spurs,
I just learned the tragic news that on Wednesday, January 23rd, that fellow Spur Al “Trapper” Kemes who served with our Scouts lost his beloved wife, Sue, very unexpectedly in the evening at their home when she quickly passed despite the best efforts of Trapper and the EMTs to revive her.
As many of you will recall, Trapper was our “go to guy” when the current 3-17th Squadron was located at Ft. Drum, NY. Sue played a vital role working with the FRG – Family Readiness Group – of the 3-17th Cav at Ft. Drum helping to organize their annual Christmas party, especially during deployments, to make certain all the children had presents.
Trapper and Sue were joined at the hip working together for the good of the current Troopers and their families. And working together they hosted weekend gatherings at their farm during the summer for the 3-17th Troopers while they were based at Ft. Drum.
Having lost my own wife, Kathie, suddenly and unexpectedly in October 1994, I know how such a sudden and unexpected loss rips your heart out. Pam and I extend our most sincere condolences to Trapper in the tough days, weeks and months ahead.
Sincerely,
Roger “Bear” Young
October 2008 3-17th Casing of the Colors Ceremony – Ft. Drum
Attending left to right, Col. Kevin Mangum, David Russell Spur 6 70-71, Maj. David Essels 3/17th 70-71,
Al “Trapper” Kemes A Trp 3/17th Scouts 68-69, Sue Kemes, LTC Fowler, CSM Whitney
So very sorry for your terribly unexpected loss Trapper. Carol and I will have you and your family in our prayers.
Trapper,
I want to share something with you that may bring you some comfort during this tragic time.
When Kathie died I received a lovely sentiment from a good friend back east that brought me comfort. It described Kath as “The Wind Beneath My Wings”
It was very true, that without Kath and Pam today, I would not have had the strength alone to accomplish what I have. Our wives are what give us purpose and meaning and understand us during our darkest hours and make us better people. And as you know it takes a very special lady to begin to understand a war veteran. Certainly a big step up above and beyond what most wives could deal with.
I strongly suspect Sue was your “Wind Beneath Your Wings” and she will always be there in your heart and soul to guide and comfort you. Here’s to Sue:
I am sorry to hear about your loss, Trapper. You and Sue are two of my fondest memories of my time at Fort Drum! I am thankful for the friendship that both of you shared with me.
Trapper,
Our hearts are breaking for you. The sudden loss of your precious Sue is truly tragic. Linda can empathize with your loss, because her first husband died unexpectedly in a truck accident in 1984 when she was just thirty-six.
Please know that we are praying for you and for Sue. There is a special place in heaven for Sue because of all she did for the families at Ft. Drum. She was a saint. May the beautiful memories you made during your life together sustain you in the days and years to come. God bless you and your families.
Trapper: We’ll be thinking of you tomorrow, especially. Please know that we continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
May God bless and comfort you during this time of profound sorrow.
Trapper,
My heart goes out to you, Will keep you in our prayers, I do not know what I would do if I lost my mate after all these years. They are special people.
Charles